Turning 50

Well, today is my birthday, no big deal. I don't feel any different, except that I have a cold today. Don't feel too good, oh well.
Actually the thing that made this not so bad is that I have been dieting (Jenny Craig) and going to the gym nearly every weekday since March 27. I have been gaining weight steadily for years and complaining about it, but doing nothing. In January, my goal was 50 (lbs) less by 50 (age). I even wrote a sticky note and put it on the fridge. I still didn't do anything. But I did think about it all the time. I was frustrated with myself all the time, trying to hide it with clothes. I think the thing that finally did it was my size 12 clothes were so tight I really needed to go up a size, again! Yulk. I was like my mom, my different sizes of clothes. My co-worker, Dawn, had told me how good the food is at Jenny Craig. I already had a membership at the gym but I was so sporadic about going. I would spend the whole day coming up with reasons not to go at night, like got to go shopping, get gas, do laundry, etc, etc.
I had thought about going early but I just didn't think I had the time since I have long hair and it takes so much time to wash, dry, and style it. I even considered cutting my hair, but I found when my hair was short it was more effort to style it.
I don't know but one day I just made the decision to do it. I didn't ask Scott permission to spend the money. I just needed to do something!!
So I called and made an appointment for that day after work at JC and decided I would get up and go to the gym every morning at 5. I went to JC. Their program is really great. I liked how that when you get halfway to your goal they start weaning you from their food to making your own meals. They emphasize veggies, fruit, eating a well balanced meal, and learning to limit your portions. And I do like their food too.
So I started the next day and have been at it since then. July has been the only month that I have slacked off and stagnated a little but I have lost over 33lbs!
So I didn't reach my 50 less by 50 but Wow I feel SO much better. I notice how much easier it is to get out of bed without my big stomach. I can cross my legs again, silly but great.
I went shopping this past week for pants (which I swore I wouldn't do until I reached my goal, but I couldn't find any size 8's in my shed). It was the first time in YEARS that I enjoyed shopping for clothes. That makes it all worthwhile!!!!! I am not where I want to be but I felt great. I even bought a pair of stretch 6 pants that are a bit tight but still fit. Amazing.
I feel healthier. I have fruit around all the time. I'm rarely hungry. And I am committed to not going back.
I found that it takes mostly a mental commitment to do this, more than anything.
I'm not trying to boast or make anyone feel bad. I feel much more empathetic to people overweight than I used to. I just wanted to share my success. It makes turning 5o not so bad. I only wish I could afford to get rid of some of the wrinkles.

Jared and Jen off to Virginia

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We got a surprise when Jared told us that he had been asked by B&W in Virginia for his resume. The lab in Idaho had him do a lot of traveling. He has been to Belgium, Tennessee I think, and Virginia too, working on this project. He has been overseeing the project and in Virginia they are more on the manufacturing side of things. So he has accepted a new position there which will add to his resume and allow him to get a more hands on use of his mechanical engineering degree. The company gave them a great moving package. They packed and moved them, shipped their cars, and will help to sell their home and house them until they buy a home in Virginia. They have a year to complete that.
So they planned a trip to CA in between jobs. They were only here for 3 days but that was great. Zach is so smiley! He is so quick to lite up his face. What a cutie! And RJ, ever my hugger and sweetie. And Savannah, the beauty! Wow, her 3 year old pics are amazing. She has the most beautiful natural curls in her hair. She is so cute and loves to smile too. She jabbers away sometimes in an unknown language, such a ham. They are all so different and so special. Oh, how I will miss them!!!!!! Virginia is a lot further. We wont see them 2 or 3 times a year like we have been.
I offered to have Jen's family come over Sunday so we could share time together (yes, I was being selfish!!!). It was so nice. I was sad that Kim forgot about it and went to San Jose to be with her mom, but Josh did come! He went to a concert in Concord Sat night and got a room. So he came up Sunday after church and spent the afternoon with us. (Luz went home to Argentina for a semester of college). It was so good to see him.
Jen's parents, brothers, and grandparents came too. It was a bunch but really it was enjoyable. Geniel and I get along really well.
Later after they were gone we played a game of Farkel with Jared, Jen and RJ. Savannah had crashed.
I had to work Monday but Jared and Jen spent time with her grandparents and packed up. They sadly said goodbye Monday evening and drove to Sacramento. They had to be there all day Tuesday so their truck could get picked up for the move. Then Wed. they flew to Virginia. I got a call that night from RJ and Savannah. RJ was so excited that he starts kindergarten soon. They had to be there for orientation the next day. They arrived late, lost 3 hours, had 2 wired kids after being cooped up in planes all day, and had to be up early the next day. I talked to Jen and she wasn't sure how that was going to happen. The kids were jumping all over and jabbering in the background.
Well, we wish them all the best. Pray that they'll be able to sell their home for a decent price in this terrible economy. We will miss them but are SO grateful for family, love, and the internet with Skype, the free camera phone online! The blogs help too to keep us feeling a part of their lives.
We love you!!

Carmel-vacation from my vacation

A couple weeks after my trip to Idaho Scott and I had a rare Friday off together. We decided a week before to go to Carmel. We went one other time and didn't have a good experience so I was determined this would be better. I spent several evenings trying to find a place to stay on the internet. Carmel and Monterey are not cheap! Wednesday night I was getting a bit concerned. I finally decided to bite the bullet and spend a bit more. I found a quaint inn in Carmel. We got it for a deal but it was still expensive but Wow, it was nice.
While I was working on the internet Scott had Tim Shelton and some other friends come over and finally install our new armoir/TV cabinet in the room. We spent hours putting all the electronic equipment back together. It is so beautiful. I love it.
We drove to Carmel Friday morning and found our room to be just wonderful. It was actually 2 rooms, a bedroom with a huge kingsize bed with a fluffy white down comforter. The bedding was exquisite. There was a stone fireplace in each room. The other room had a daybed with lots of pillows. I prefer a couch for watching TV but the daybed was pretty comfy. The huge bathroom had gaudy tile but a jetted tub. What a nice place. They have a patio with tables and umbrellas so you can enjoy their nice continental breakfast outside. They also have small finger foods and wine in the afternoon.
It was a short 2 blocks to the main tourist area of Carmel. Carmel is so quaint. I just love it. We missed breakfast on Sat. so we asked where to go. They steered us the best place! I had cheese blintzes, which are like crepes with ricotta cheese inside and a raspberry glaze on top. I even had hot chocolate. It was chilly and we sat outside under the heaters. Since I've been dieting since March, this was really rich food for me. I enjoyed, or rather savored, every bite, but I suffered a bit later. My stomach hurt for awhile. We wandered around town and Scott even indulged me by looking in shops that I like. They had 2 shops filled with french decorating ideas, that I just love. Our plan was to see the sunset on the beach and we did walk all the way down to the beach despite the fog. It was cold and foggy so we didn't stay long. The beach is not Scott's favorite thing.
We had planned on a certain place to eat dinner but they were full for the evening, apparently you need to make reservations ahead. Well, we were happily disappointed because the place we ended up at was absolutely wonderful. The waiter was standing outside the door trying to get people to come in. He was French and so friendly. We found out later that he is a college grad trying to make it as an artist, sculptor I think. The fish was wow! And the salad was unusual greens with melted goat cheese. Even Scott loved it. Two outstanding meals in one day!
We went back to our room and enjoyed watching TV. I think we brought the DVDs "24" and finished the season.
Sunday we went to church at a Seaside ward which was one of the most friendly wards we have ever attended. The Sunday School lesson was great. Learned something new. It was so nice
to have time away from home and relax. We had a great time!

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I'm so bad about updating my blog. I'm going to try to do better, even if it's only a journal entry with no pics.
I need to do June, with my wonderful trip to Idaho. I flew to Boise, ID on June 20th and spent 5 days with Jeremy, Lisa, Makale (3), and Abigail, my new little granddaughter. Makale and I played with playdough and I watched him draw endless circles on the easel. Those 2 activities seemed to be his favorites at the time. Abigail loves to smile. She was adorable. Jeremy and I had a good talk on the way to his house from the airport. It was so nice to spend some time with him. Lisa is a sweet hostess, especially with all the company she had been having. Thanks!
I took Makale to the park. They have a large park with a big pond and nice playground. He had a good time and I enjoyed being outside.
Jeremy and Lisa took Abigail and flew to N. Carolina for a conference for Jeremy's work on Thurs. They were gone until Monday, so I loaded up the car, (much thanks to Lisa for packing items for Makale), with Makale and Pearl, their dog, and my computer slash DVD player for Makale in the back seat. I think the drive from Boise to Idaho Falls is about 4 1/2 hours. It took us about 6 1/2 hours. My computer kept freezing up almost exactly every 40 minutes. I had to find an offramp and pull over. Several times I had to restart the computer, which a 5 minute ordeal. So I lost almost 10 minutes every time. But Makale was an Angel! He was SO good in his carseat and the dog, What dog? Pearl never made a peep in her crate! I was totally amazed.
I stopped in American Falls, I think, for lunch and asked for directions to the nearest park so Makale could play and I could walk the dog. Well 2 different times I was given directions to the park on the river but after 40 minutes of driving around, totally frustrated, we continued down the road. I found a truckstop which had a large dirt parking lot and weeds so I was able to let Pearl and Makale out. It was a LONG drive! And when I got just a couple miles outside of Idaho Falls they were laying gravel on the road and had it down to one lane. You had to drive on the new gravel for several miles at about 20-30 miles an hour. So tedious, and so close to home. Oh, how I wished I knew how to get there on sidestreets.
Well, we did finally arrive to spend 4 days with Jared and Jen and their family. Zachery, their new baby, was so cute. He slept a bit but I did get to spend time with him too. Jared and Jen had recently acquired a large trampoline (Jeremy and Lisa got a small one too!). They kids had a great time playing together on the tramp. Makale loves to be outside. RJ and Savannah have a stage in RJ's bedroom, although Savannah doesn't need a stage to ham it up. She sings and dances. Oh how I wish I could understand what she's singing. She's so serious. What an actress. RJ loves the stage too.
I love spending time the the grandchildren. Oh how sweet, innocent, and precious they are.
It was a busy fun trip.
On Monday I packed up the car and off we went back to Boise. This time went a bit faster, thankfully. I rigged a way to get the computer up front when it froze up so I could get the movie going again. Aren't movies a wonderful way to keep kids busy in the car!
I got to spend a little more time with Abigail before I left for home on Tuesday.
Phew! Love them dearly, but 10 days was exhausting!

Cadence's Pre-School Graduation

Scott and I attended the pre-school graduation for Cadence in Davis. She starts kindergarten just like RJ and Kalven this year.
The children sang a really cute song. I wish I had gotten the whole thing on video. Then the director told something about each child and gave them a diploma. It was a really fun event. We were there with Scott Jr, Polly, and Polly's dad.

SURPRISE VISIT!!!!

Wow, what a present! I was just cleaning up about noon from painting the shed trim in the backyard when in walks, who but RJ! and then Savannah!
They decided Thursday night to drive to CA for the weekend. Wow. They spent yesterday with Jared's dad and then drove here today.
Jared dropped Jen off at her grandparents and brought the kids here. After lunch Jared went and joined Jen and Zach. RJ and Savannah and I played with legos and the kitchen. Scott showed RJ how to play one of Scott's favorite computer games, which RJ loves to do.
What a wonderful day. Sure didn't expect to get to see them again so soon!!!!

As I said in my post about our trip to Idaho I mentioned that we visited our "newest" granchild. Well, that was Sunday. On our way home from Idaho we got a call. Abigail was born on Tuesday afternoon. Adorable of course. Congrats to Jeremy, Lisa, and Makale. So glad that all went well and everyone is healthy and safe.
I will get to see them on June 20th.

Painting rocks

After playing in the sand the kids painted rocks. I was surprised that Savannah actually tried to completely cover her rocks. I didn't get a picture of RJ's when he was done. He painted a ladybug, a worm, and a rainbow. I also took a picture of Jennifer's giant gorgeous tulips!!

GIANT Jaw Breakers

Savannah and RJ had a great time enjoying a very small amount of their giant jaw breakers! Yellow and blue everywhere!!!

Trip to Utah and Idaho

Scott and I headed off to Utah for the 2nd reunion of his group of friends from church from after he returned from his mission. Many of them have remained in contact for all these years. Honestly I wasn't really looking forward to it but I had a really nice time. There were other spouses there that felt the same so we enjoyed being together. Debbie, whose parents actually live here in Fairfield in our church congregation (called a ward), I have met before. She found this wonderful 3 story house in Park City, Utah, right at the bottom of the ski slopes. We climbed the hill right behind the house and took a walk among the trees on the slopes together. We also walked down, way down, many steps the two blocks down to the main street where all the shops are. I was really glad we got a room on the first floor! The house was great. The weather was warm and pleasant. It was fun meeting everyone, especially Russ, who was Scott's roomate and best friend. In fact we may get to spend some time with them in Disneyland in December. I got to spend some time working on my computer genealogy too and Debbie and Jeanine got me to sign up for Facebook. I thought that's what a blog was for. I am disappointed though that I still haven't been able to contact my best friend from high school.
We had left Fairfield on Thurs at noon and stayed in Nevada. We both got up and got to exercise in the hotels gym which was nice. Then we drove the rest of the way to Park City arriving around 3:30 Friday. We were there until after church on Sunday. We drove from there to Iona, Idaho to see Jared and Jen and family, including our newest (at the time) grandchild, Zachery (6 weeks). He is adorable of course. (That reminds me of Pat Wight. She ALWAYS said that each successive grandchild was the SMARTEST ever!)
We spent Sunday evening and all day Monday with them. Zachery seemed constantly hungry! He is so sweet. He is certainly a combination of both RJ and Savannah in looks.
I played with the other 2 in the sand box for hours. They painted rocks and we had a water balloon fight too. It was almost a record breaking warm day in Iona. Savannah had her swim suit on. They practically made a swimming pool out of the sand box. They had a great time.